Starielle Hope

Want to Access a Whole New World of Intimacy & Connection?

What is Relationship & Intimacy Coaching?

Consider me a personal trainer for your love life. I’ve spent thousands of hours studying all areas of love, sex, and relationships so that I can put together a tailored approach specific to you, and what most helps you thrive in a relationship.

Have you been working hard for years to build the life you want for yourself only to find what is really missing is deep love with an incredible partner who truly sees and supports you on your journey? Does finding and attracting the partner you want feel impossible? Are you frustrated with a constant stream of dates with people who just don’t seem like the right match? Are you in a relationship but find yourself and your partner repeating the same arguments? Do you feel that your partner doesn’t fully support you in your needs?

Our society puts a great emphasis on training ourselves academically and physically, but many of us neglect to train ourselves emotionally. From a young age, fairy tales and romantic comedies tell us that if we just “find the right person” we can “live happily ever after” suggesting that all the work is in finding “the one” and, once we do, the relationship will be easy. This is a little bit like telling someone, “oh no, you don’t need to train for that marathon, all you need to do is find the right person to run next to and it will be a breeze.”

In truth, thriving relationships require the cultivation of specific skills around communication, self-awareness, and knowing how to tell when it’s time to create space for closeness and when it’s time to create space for more independence.

I will demystify love, sex, and relationships by teaching you step-by-step processes to develop the skills that will help you cultivate and experience the love, sex, and intimacy you desire.

My Story

I grew up in a constant state of loneliness that I thought was normal because it was all I had ever known. I felt terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to me. I experienced a wakeup call in my early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but I could learn how to connect more deeply with others just as I could learn any other skill. But how? I set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for myself.

Along the way I discovered that I have a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like myself) can understand and adopt.

Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved my happiness and well-being more than anything else I’ve ever done, and I absolutely love sharing what I’ve learned along the way.

I’ve been doing this work for over a decade now and love every minute of it. I currently share the knowledge I have gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing my first book later this year.

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